DO YOU WISH THERE WAS A WAY TO…Thrive through the Holidays instead of just surviving? Enjoy the sights and sounds of the Holiday season once again without constantly focusing on the pain of the betrayal? To be able to get through a family gathering without feeling ashamed, overwhelmed, or anxious?
Beautiful, don't just SURVIVE through the Holidays. You can THRIVE through them!
In today's episode, I share 3 tips to help you navigate the Holidays so you can enjoy them even in the midst of betrayal trauma.
I hope this blesses you!
XO Lisa
 
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I cannot believe it's been 1 year since we launched Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast. It's been a wonderful year. So full of growth and I have heard from so many beautiful women who are listening and gaining wisdom, hope, and healing from the podcast.
I am beyond grateful! God is sooooo good! We could not be here without each of YOU. Thank you for listening, leaving reviews (and if you haven't, please do!) and giving such support.
In today's episode, I share our top 5 episodes from the past year. They are listed below for you to check out. 
Here's to another great year and lots of recovery for each of you beautiful ladies!!!
XO, Lisa
46. My brain is on overload since his affair! How to change your mindset so you can start to heal.
45. How do I stop being so insecure since being cheated on? 3 ways to overcome the insecurity monster.
47. Should I celebrate my anniversary? 3 ways to help you decide.
43. I don’t know if I will EVER trust him again! 4 signs he just might be trustworthy.
44. I cringe every time I hear her name! How to tame the triggers of words and names after betrayal.
 
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Is your anniversary right around the corner? Has it become a day you are dreading since you found out about his affair? 
This is the day that signifies you married the love of your life. You stood before family, friends, and God and vowed to love, honor, cherish, and be faithful to one another.  But....
He broke the vows through an affair. You have decided to work on your marriage but you are struggling whether or not to celebrate the day you got married. 
What do you do?
In today's episode, I share 3 personal ways that helped me make that decision. 
I hope this blesses you Beautiful!
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Does your brain feel like it's on overload? Are the thoughts running amuck about his affair? Are you doubting yourself, others, or maybe beginning to believe you are not enough?
We often realize the impact betrayal has on our hearts. It hurts beyond words. We also notice the affect is has on our body - unexplained pain, sleeplessness, sickness, immune problems. But what about the effect betrayal has on your brain?
Science has proven that trauma affects the brain immensely. It keeps our brain in a survival mode - always looking for danger. The next threat.
How can we overcome the mindset we develop due to betrayal? How do we change our mindset so we can heal?
Listen in and take notes Beautiful. It's time to be transformed by the renewal of your mind. Romans 12:2
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Like an earthquake that destroys the foundations of buildings, betrayal destroys our self confidence leaving us with a monster of insecurities.
I remember thinking I wasn't good enough, pretty enough, too fat, too many wrinkles, getting older, etc. All these insecurities led me to believe the lies of unworthiness and hopelessness. This led to self doubt and it crushed my confidence. 
I know EXACTLY how you feel!
Why do we have all these insecurities and how do we heal from them?
Today, I'm going to give you 4 questions to ask yourself to see what your insecurities are, how they make you feel, think, and believe. Then, I'll share how to overcome the insecurity monster so you can rise up confidently as the woman God created you to be.
It's time to slay the insecurity monster Beautiful! Let's do this!
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Do you cringe every time you hear her name? Does a certain word or phrase cause you to shutter, feel sick, or cause your anxiety to go through the roof? Are you emotionally flooded since you discovered his affair?
I completely understand. I too was so triggered every time I heard her name spoken. So much so that I couldn't even watch one of my all time favorite TV shows just because one of the characters had her name. Talk about being controlled by betrayal trauma!
How can we move through the pain, emotional upheaval, and anxiety caused by certain words? How can we tame the triggers caused by betrayal?
In today's episode, I give you 3 things you can do TODAY to move through the pain and begin to tame the triggers once and for all so they no longer derail your life.
I hope you enjoy!
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This is just my way of saying "THANK YOU" for making Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast one of the top 5% rated globally. We are here because of you Beautiful!  I love and appreciate you!
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Do you ever wonder if you will EVER trust him again? I mean, he did have an affair. Should you even begin to let down your guard and trust a little? 
If you are struggling with trust, struggling with the thought of if you ever can, or how to know if he is worthy of being trusted again, this episode is for you Beautiful!
I'm sharing 4 signs to look for that will help you decide if you can even begin trusting him again. Even if it's just little by little. I even throw in a few RED FLAGS to look for when evaluating his actions. I hope this helps and blesses you Beautiful!
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Are you afraid to set boundaries because you fear your husband won't honor them or will get angry and leave the relationship? Do you think, "Why bother. It's not gonna change anything."?
Beautiful, boundaries are not meant to control others and "fence" in the relationship. Boundaries are actually healthy and necessary for your recovery.
In today's episode, I share 3 ways you actually hurt yourself when you DON'T set boundaries after betrayal. 
Come and listen and be ready to make some changes to help you rise in confidence and regain control of your life.
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Do you look in the mirror and think to yourself, "If I were only pretty enough maybe he wouldn't have cheated." Or maybe you think "If I were thinner, curvier, had longer hair, dressed more like 'her', my marriage wouldn't be broken right now."
Beautiful, if you've ever thought any of these, you are probably suffering from body image crisis. 
96% of women who have been cheated on say they look at themselves differently, they have body image issues. 
Well, I have 3 steps you can start taking TODAY to move you into healing your damaged body image. 
Grab your pen and paper - these are really good!
It's time to see YOU as God created you to be - A Unique Beautiful Woman - fearfully and wonderfully made!
Let's go...
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When you have been betrayed, it's only normal to wish for things to go back to "normal". But it's not that simple.
As Christian women, we are told we must forgive, but when? And is it a one in done deal? Does that also mean that we automatically trust him again? 
There is so much being said on social media regarding Forgiveness and Trust so I wanted to address it from a biblical perspective. 
In today's episode, I tell you the difference between forgiveness and trust. We also discuss the guidelines God has given us for moving forward in relationships. And we come face-to-face with the only One we can fully trust with our broken heart.
I hope this helps and blesses you Beautiful!
 

Have you lost all trust in yourself since you found out about your husband's affair? It's not unusual to doubt yourself and your decision making when trauma has hit.
In today's flash friday episode, I give you a few tactical ways to rebuild trust in yourself after betrayal. 
Grab your pen and paper Beautiful, this is a good one. And make sure to implement these this weekend!
I hope this blesses you!

It's devastating, confusing, overwhelming, debilitating, and the anger is out of control when you find out about his affair. You just want to project all the rage, frustration, and pain upon him. But there are 3 things that you should do BEFORE you confront him about his affair. 
I know EXACTLY where you are Beautiful. I've been there. I remember D-Day like it was yesterday. It's a defining moment. One you NEVER forget. And with it comes all the emotions at once - it leaves you bewildered.
It can be so easy to want to rush in and confront him with all the information you now have at your fingertips. But stepping on the breaks long enough to get yourself to a place where you can confront him in a safer way is the key. 
In today's episode, I share with you 3 things to do BEFORE you confront him and it will help put you in a better, safer place so you can face the situation more equipped.
I pray this blesses you Beautiful!
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This is Part 2 of our series "What are the stages of grief in betrayal trauma". We explore the last 4 stages in this episode. I also give you tactical tools to help you release some of the trauma responses so you don't get stuck and can continue to move through your healing journey. 
Grief is a normal response when you have been betrayed and when you realize how to embrace it and move through it, you can get to your desired recovery a little quicker. 
Take some time to really digest today's episode. This is for YOU, Beautiful!
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Thank you for listening and I pray this blesses you today!
XOXO Lisa

When you discover that your husband has betrayed you through a sexual affair, the discovery can be devastating. It rocks your world to the core. It shatters your very reality and can leave you in a state of grief.
The pain and loss is unbearable and you begin to wonder if you will survive through it. You question everything and everyone. 
This is a part of the grieving process when you have suffered great loss. Yes Beautiful, you are suffering loss in betrayal.
Loss of trust in your relationship
Loss of trust in yourself
Loss of trust in your partner
Loss of the future you have dreamed of
Loss of your identity, your sense of self
These losses are great and you do go through a grief process, even if you don't realize it.
Today episode is part 1 of a 2 part series on the Stages of Grief in Betrayal Trauma. 
I walk you through the 7 stages along with how to know if you are currently in one of the stages as well as how to NOT get stuck. 
It's important to move through the stages so you can heal and recover from the trauma the betrayal has inflicted upon you.
Grab your pen and paper beautiful, get someplace where you can focus on you for a short time, and dive in with me so we can work you through the stages of grief.
Episode 31: What are somatic techniques...
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Today is 'FLASH FRIDAY with Lisa". On Friday's I bring you quick "how to's" that will change what you are struggling with into a better outcome. 
A HUGE shout out to Cyndi McLaughlin for coming up with our Friday episode "title". THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL!
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What you speak over your life and circumstances really does matter. 
The Bible plainly states that in the tongue is the power of life or death. So the words you speak are seeds that produce a harvest - be it negative or positive.
After betrayal, we find ourselves speaking negatively about most everything because we are deeply wounded. But if we make the decision to change the words that are coming out of our mouth, we can change the atmosphere around us and create a better outcome.
In today's episode, I give you tactical tips on how to make the necessary changes that will produce a better harvest for your life.
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