Do you find yourself staying very busy since you found out about his affair?
Are you working long hours and even taking on new projects?
Have you started "self-medicating" so you can "numb" the pain of his betrayal?
Are you hyper-focused on everyone else's problems so that you don't have to think about his infidelity?
If you resinate with any of those, Beautiful, today's episode is for YOU!
I was there. I took stayed super busy, became a workaholic, focused on everyone but myself just so I could avoid the pain and devastation of my husband's affair. But it eventually caught up with me. I spent 4 days in the cardiac unit because my heart was over stressed, my adrenal glands shut down, my thyroid stopped working, and fatigue took it's toll. 
I don't want you to suffer the same. 
Today I'm going to share 5 signs that you are avoiding the trauma of betrayal and give you ways to start your healing journey.
Grab a latte and join my on the couch. Let's get real and get you on the road to your deserved recovery.
I pray this blesses you!
XO Lisa
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Sex after Betrayal - such a touchy subject.
How do you even begin to go there? 
How do you reconnect sexually after an affair?
Can you redeem your sex life after betrayal?
We are going to discuss all that and more on today's episode!
I have had a number of recent clients ask how to reconnect sexually after betrayal and even if it is possible to have a healthy, enjoyable sex life after his affair/porn addiction.  
It is possible!  And it can be beautiful again.
This is a great episode to listen to with your spouse as you seek to reconcile and redeem all parts of your relationship.
I pray this helps to get the conversation started and moves you into a healthier place so you can enjoy the gift God has given you in the covenant marriage.
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One of my beautiful clients and weekly listeners wrote in with this question:
Help! I'm tempted to cheat ever since I found out about my husband's affair. I keep thinking, "Well, he did it, why shouldn't I?" 
It's natural to have temptation hit you square in the face when you are in the throws of betrayal trauma. But what do you do about it? How should you handle it? Should you tell someone? 
In today's episode, I'm gonna share 5 Hard Core Truths you will have to face if you decide to cross over your moral boundaries. 
I also offer you 4 ways to escape the temptation. God's Word is clear that He has given us a way out when temptation arises. 
This is a crucial episode for women who are at a crossroad. 
I pray this helps and blesses you!
XO, Lisa
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We'll be diving deep into a crucial topic: how gaslighting affects your mental and emotional health in the context of betrayal trauma. Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic used by the betrayer to distort your reality, causing you to question your own sanity and experiences. In the context of betrayal trauma, where trust is shattered and vulnerability is exploited, gaslighting can have devastating consequences on your well-being.
 
Join me today as we uncover:
The impact of gaslighting
Explore ways to heal
Empower ourselves to reclaim our mental and emotional health
If you have been blessed by this podcast, please leave a review. It helps keep us in the ratings so women across the globe are able to find us and receive the message of Hope & Healing from the devastation of their husband's affair.  Thank you and may God bless you!
E67:  6 signs he is Gaslighting you
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We are diving deep into a topic that affects many women who have suffered betrayal: EMOTIONAL ABUSE.
We'll explore what it is, how it manifests in the context of betrayal trauma, the signs to look out for, and most importantly, how to stop it.
I know how hard this topic can be, but I also know how educating yourself empowers you to know what you are dealing with and how to stop it.
God does not want you to be emotionally abused. His desire is to bring awareness to you and see you healed from it. 
So, let's begin our journey towards healing and self-discovery.
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Today we're going to dive into a crucial topic: Blame-Shifting in betrayal trauma. Betrayal trauma can be profoundly challenging, and understanding blame-shifting is essential for you on your healing journey. So let's explore what blame-shifting is, the signs to look out for, and how we can put an end to it.
 
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Do you find yourself feeling attached or bonded to the one who hurt you, took advantage of you and betrayed you?Do you sometimes feel sympathy or maybe affection or are even attracted to him even more since his affair? 
Beautiful, you could be dealing with a trauma bond…
 
We are diving in deep to understand what trauma bonding is, the signs & symptoms, and what you can do if you realize you have a trauma bond.
 
Grab your pen and paper. I'm gonna take you through a list of sign & symptoms so you can access where  you are.
I pray this helps and blesses you!
XO Lisa
 
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Have you been told not to share your story of how you’ve been betrayed? Do you feel guilt and shame and you’ve isolated yourself since his affair? Beautiful, this is a ploy of the enemy. He seeks to keep you isolated in order to keep you stuck in the trauma in pain of the Betrayal. Let’s talk about it today.
 
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Betrayal due to sexual addiction or an affair can leave you devastated, anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, and an emotional mess.  You are constantly dealing with emotional overload. 
How can you calm your emotions?
How can you regulate your nervous system so you don't feel so anxious?
How can you process the trauma and loss you are faced with due to his affair?
EFT is a powerful tool that has been shown to be effective in reducing emotional distress and promoting healing in a variety of situations. Today, we will explore how EFT works and how it can be used to help you heal and recovery from traumatic experiences and the grief of loss.
I pray this blesses you, Beautiful!
XO Lisa
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Betrayal can occur in various forms, including infidelity, lying, deception, or breaking a promise. It can have a profound impact on your mental and emotional well-being, leaving you feeling vulnerable, scared, and isolated. In today's podcast episode, we'll explore why it's crucial to find a sense of safety after betrayal and discuss some practical strategies to help you regain your sense of security.
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Have you ever said to yourself. . . 
I didn’t see the signs.
I should have noticed earlier.
How can I ever trust myself again if I didn't notice he was having an affair?
 
Restoring self-trust after betrayal can be particularly difficult, as it often involves not only healing from the initial betrayal but also rebuilding trust in your own judgment and decision-making abilities.
 
Today I want to share with you 5 ways to rebuild trust in yourself after betrayal. 
I pray this blesses you, Beautiful!
XO Lisa
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It's so easy to get wrapped up in the victim mentality after we have been traumatized from betrayal. Society and the enemy of our soul seeks to keep us bound in this victim mindset. 
But are you really a victim or have you been victimized? How can you begin to live victoriously after you have been betrayed?
We are diving deep today with Juliana Page of the God's Vibes Podcast. 
It is a powerful packed episode about escaping a narcissistic relationship, rising above the victim mindset, and how God transforms us into the women He has created us to be.
Grab your latte, pen and paper, Beautiful. This is a great one!
Connect with Master Coach and Prophetic Trainer over on God's Vibes Podcast.
XO Lisa
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Do you find yourself thinking:
I am obsessed with how I look since my husband’s affair!
Why does he look at a certain body type?
I’ve gained weight since I found out about his betrayal. I feel awful about myself but don’t know what to do about it.
The other women is younger and more attractive than I am. How can I compete with her?
 
I hear you loud and clear and I understand. I was there. I had the same thoughts. 
But then God opened my eyes to what was really going on inside of me. What I was actually allowing by comparing myself and obsessing over the "attractiveness" of other women. 
Today, we are going deep into the topic of poor body image after betrayal and how it can lead you into a dark place where you don't want to be. 
This episode is deep but one that must be addressed.
I pray this brings truth and freedom into your life today Beautiful!
XO, Lisa
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Do you wish there was a way to heal from betrayal trauma without having to jump over so many obstacles in your way? Do you wish you knew what some of them were so you could know how to deal with them when they raise their ugly head?
I know what it feels like to be blind-sighted when trying to heal from the devastation of my husband’s affair. I know what it’s like to feel as though you will never really heal and have your life back again. I know what it’s like to feel so lost and confused.
Imagine if you knew the obstacles you’d be facing while healing from betrayal trauma so you could navigate through them and not have the agony of shutdown stop you from moving forward. Imagine if you knew how to overcome these obstacles and recover quicker so you could begin to enjoy your life again.
That’s what I created How to overcome the hurdles of betrayal trauma.
Monday, May 1st I’ll be hosting a live zoom training about the top obstacles women face when healing from betrayal trauma.  What they are, how they effect you, and how to move through them so you can heal and recover from the devastation of your husband’s affair.
So if you’re ready to discover the hurdles you face when healing from betrayal, acquire the skills to overcome them, and finally build your confidence so you can enjoy yourself and life again, then register for the event down below in the show notes. Get in early since seats are limited on this live zoom event.
Head to  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.info to register. I can’t wait to see you there!
 
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Do you feel like you are going crazy since you found out about his affair?
Do you wonder if you are really dealing with this thing called "Betrayal Trauma"?
Beautiful, it can seem so confusing and overwhelming to navigate it all when you are in the midst of the devastation and pain of his betrayal.
I know what it feels like. That's why we are going back to the basics today and breaking down the signs and symptoms of betrayal trauma so you can recognize it and begin to move forward into healing from it.  
I will even give you 5 ways to begin your healing journey.
Grab your pen and paper so you can take notes on this one. 
I pray it blesses you and give you some clarity in the midst of the craziness of betrayal.
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Do you wish there was a way to heal from betrayal trauma without having to jump over so many obstacles in your way? Do you wish you knew what some of them were so you could know how to deal with them when they raise their ugly head?
I know what it feels like to be blind-sighted when trying to heal from the devastation of my husband’s affair. I know what it’s like to feel as though you will never really heal and have your life back again. I know what it’s like to feel so lost and confused.
Imagine if you knew the obstacles you’d be facing while healing from betrayal trauma so you could navigate through them and not have the agony of shutdown stop you from moving forward. Imagine if you knew how to overcome these obstacles and recover quicker so you could begin to enjoy your life again.
That’s what I created How to overcome the hurdles of betrayal trauma.
Monday, May 1st I’ll be hosting a live zoom training about the top obstacles women face when healing from betrayal trauma.  What they are, how they effect you, and how to move through them so you can heal and recover from the devastation of your husband’s affair.
So if you’re ready to discover the hurdles you face when healing from betrayal, acquire the skills to overcome them, and finally build your confidence so you can enjoy yourself and life again, then register for the event down below in the show notes. Get in early since seats are limited on this live zoom event.
Head to  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.info to register. I can’t wait to see you there!
 
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When you have been betrayed, you face many obstacles, or what I can hurdles when healing from betrayal trauma.
They can cause distraction, frustration, anger, overwhelm, sadness, and trip you up when you are seeking to just move forward to recovery.
There is one in particular that all of us face during our healing journey after his affair.
Today, I'm going to share it with you and help you recognize it, face it, move through it, jump over it, so you can continue moving forward and not be tripped up any longer. 
Are you ready?
Let's do this Beautiful!
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Do you wish there was a way to heal from betrayal trauma without having to jump over so many obstacles in your way? Do you wish you knew what some of them were so you could know how to deal with them when they raise their ugly head?
I know what it feels like to be blind-sighted when trying to heal from the devastation of my husband’s affair. I know what it’s like to feel as though you will never really heal and have your life back again. I know what it’s like to feel so lost and confused.
Imagine if you knew the obstacles you’d be facing while healing from betrayal trauma so you could navigate through them and not have the agony of shutdown stop you from moving forward. Imagine if you knew how to overcome these obstacles and recover quicker so you could begin to enjoy your life again.
That’s what I created How to overcome the hurdles of betrayal trauma.
Monday, May 1st I’ll be hosting a live zoom training about the top obstacles women face when healing from betrayal trauma.  What they are, how they effect you, and how to move through them so you can heal and recover from the devastation of your husband’s affair.
So if you’re ready to discover the hurdles you face when healing from betrayal, acquire the skills to overcome them, and finally build your confidence so you can enjoy yourself and life again, then register for the event down below in the show notes. Get in early since seats are limited on this live zoom event.
Head to  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.info to register. I can’t wait to see you there!
 
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