What is forgiveness?  And how can I forgive him for betraying me?
 
Listen beautiful, I asked myself those same questions. This is just a little of what I found to be true…
 
Forgiveness is not letting the guilty “off the hook“. It is moving the guilty from your hook onto God’s hook.
 
Forgiveness is dismissing a debt that cannot be paid back. What was stolen from you is gone. It will never be the same. He can never pay you back for what he did to you. And while that is hard to hear, it is truth.
 
Forgiveness is also releasing your rights regarding the offense. Releasing your right to dwell on it. Your right to hold onto it. Your right to keep bringing it up.
 
“Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeat the matter separates close friends“ Proverbs 17:9
 
These are truths about forgiveness. You’re not forgiving in order to say that what was done to you was OK. You are forgiving so that you can be set free!
 
Read that again👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
 
Realizing that the debt owed to you can never be repaid is the first step.
 
Being free requires forgiveness.
 
You may not be there yet. That’s OK. It took me a while as well. And I’m still in the process. But I would love to share with you more on the subject of forgiveness. 
 
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Healing from betrayal trauma first begins by facing the truth of what has happened to you. Facing the truth is not easy, but necessary to heal. 
 
"You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32
 
It takes tremendous courage to step into your healing process. But you are courageous! And I know you are ready to begin. Join me today as we discuss the first steps of your healing journey.
 
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Make sure to subscribe to my podcast, and if you enjoyed the show, had an aha moment, or were inspired to take the next step in your healing journey, by all means, leave a review. It’s the highest compliment I receive. And make sure to screen shot this episode, share us out on your IG and FB stories, tag me @LifeRedesigned with Lisa Podcast and I’ll give you a huge shout out as well.  And if you are ready to move out of the devastation of betrayal and ReDesign your life and relationships in the way you desire them to be, hit me up in the DM, I would love to hear from you and connect.
Until next time…
Love God, Live your life passionately, and always choose joy in the midst of all your circumstances.
Cheers to you beautiful!
Love, 
Lisa
 

Romantic Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one she gave her heart to, the one who she put her complete trust in, the one who she loves with all her heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Either way, another woman has had her man and now her world has been obliterated. Blown apart, shattered into a billion pieces - ash.
What has just happened?  What in the world are you feeling? Experiencing? My friend, it’s call betrayal trauma and it’s real.
In today's episode, we dive into what betrayal trauma really is and how it affects the one who has been injured by it.
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Hey beautiful. This is LifeRedesigned with Lisa - the podcast designed for women who want to find hope and healing in the midst of betrayal trauma and loss. 
Each week, I help YOU discover the New You and ReDesign your life the way you desire it to be. One that is lived passionately, out loud, on purpose, full of impact and joy. The way God intended it to be.
In this podcast, I give you my best advise that will help you learn how to deal with betrayal, the trauma it brings, loss, relationships, addiction, and much more.
I also bring in others who have gone through betrayal and loss to share their invaluable insight, wisdom and experiences on how they journeyed through into a LifeReDesigned.
I also bring in all things Jesus, as He is the one who ultimately brings us into our healing and freedom from betrayal trauma. 
So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a #LifeReDesigned.
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Make sure to subscribe to my podcast, and if you enjoyed the show, had an aha moment, or were inspired to take the next step in your healing journey, by all means, leave a review. It’s the highest compliment I receive. And make sure to screen shot this episode, share us out on your IG and FB stories, tag me @LifeRedesigned with Lisa Podcast and I’ll give you a huge shout out as well.  And if you are ready to move out of the devastation of trauma, loss, and betrayal and ReDesign your life and relationships in the way you desire them to be, hit me up in the DM, I would love to hear from you and connect.
Grab my FREE E-book: Discover the NEW YOU!