I thought I would begin this year, sharing the exact things I did to heal from betrayal trauma. So many times, we jump from thing to thing just because we are seeking some kind of relief. 
Relief is great, but I know you desire true healing. 
What works?
In today's episode, I'm sharing exactly what I did to heal from his betrayal. I followed this plan so I could keep moving forward and not get stuck in the quicksand of the trauma.
I know they will help you as well.
I pray this blesses you!
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It’s the New Year. You want to move forward in your recovery from his betrayal but you don’t feel like you can. 
I hear you Beautiful. Sometimes we feel like we can't because if we do, it's like we are saying what he did was OK.
Or, we feel if we move on, he will stop doing the work.
Betrayal Trauma is unique in that it involves the intense feelings of shame associated with the act of being abused or violated. Therefore if you have experienced betrayal trauma you may suffer from: Shame, guilt and self-blame. Depression. These make it difficult to move on from the betrayal. So how do you?
Moving on after someone's betrayal can be a challenging and painful process. In today's episode, I'll share 6 ways that may help.
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The Top 2% Global Ranked Podcast for Christian Women and Couples Who want to find Hope & Healing from the Devastation of Marital Betrayal!
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Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again?
Are you a couple who is faced with the reality of marital infidelity and you want to save your marriage but you just don’t know how?
The journey from devastation to restoration is not easy, but God showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. And my marriage has been resurrected to new life.
Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands, CEO, Ministry Leader, Author, and your Christian Betrayal Trauma Specialist.
Wanna know how you can heal and recover from betrayal?
In this podcast you will find
-> Biblical guidance
-> Pure honesty
-> Tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair.
My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal.
If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place.
Grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you really desire.
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Hi Beautiful!
I pray you had the most beautiful Merry Christmas!
I know the Holidays can be extremely difficult and you need to know you are appreciated and loved. So today, I just want to share a love note to you from me.  From my heart - full of gratitude.
You've been such a blessing to me and I just wanted to take this time to say "THANK YOU" for being a part of Beauty Beyond Betrayal. I am so honored and humbled that you have trusted me this past year with your healing journey. I know how tough that is in the midst of betrayal. That's why I am so grateful and amazed at what God has done. 
2024 is going to be such a year of BREAKTHROUGH! I am praying that you will once again allow me to challenge you, strengthen you, stretch you, and help grow you in this coming year. 
God has so much in store for you. With Him, all things are possible.
Let's join together and run the race well.
Cheers to you Beautiful!
XO Lisa
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E90: Emotional Abuse in Betrayal Trauma | 5 signs you’re experiencing it and how to stop it.
E93: Sex after Betrayal | How to re-establish sexual intimacy after an affair
E115: What is an Impact Letter and why should I write one after betrayal?
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DECEMBER SPECIAL - Grab our new Mini Course:  Devastated to Determined
DECEMBER SPECIAL - How to THRIVE through the Holidays after Betrayal Workshop
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The Holidays are generally defined as a time of joy and cheer. But, for the one who has been betrayed, it can be so lonely - even if you are still in the relationship.  We have a tendency to look back on holidays past and compare this one to them, only to be left disappointed and even more lonely.
In today's episode, I share how I journeyed through loneliness during my separation due to my husband's betrayal. I am giving you 6 ways to help you deal with the loneliness and set yourself up for a better holiday season. 
These helped me tremendously and I pray they help you as well.
Merry Christmas, Beautiful!
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DECEMBER SPECIAL - Grab our new Mini Course:  Devastated to Determined
DECEMBER SPECIAL - How to THRIVE through the Holidays after Betrayal Workshop
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You didn't ask to be betrayed. You had no consent. You didn't choose it. 
The pain you feel from his betrayal was NOT by your choice.
But what about the prolonged suffering?
While pain isn't something we want to experience, it does have a purpose. The suffering on the other hand....
Beautiful, if you are still experiencing long term suffering due to his betrayal, today's episode is just for you.
I'm going to break down the difference between pain and suffering, how to tell the difference, what to do about both, and how to move into recovery.
Let's get you "unstuck" from the undue suffering of betrayal.
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Visit our new website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
DECEMBER SPECIAL - Grab our new Mini Course:  Devastated to Determined
DECEMBER SPECIAL - How to THRIVE through the Holidays after Betrayal Workshop
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa:   Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE
 
 

Betrayal can steal your joy, confidence, self-esteem, identity, and even your sense of personal rights. 
In today's episode, I'm sharing about a Personal Bill of Rights:
What it is
Why you need it
How to write it
How it can help re-establish your self confidence
And more
Beautiful, this document has helped so many of my clients "find themselves" once again.
Grab your pen and paper and let's write yours together!
 
 
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Visit our new website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
DECEMBER SPECIAL - Grab our new Mini Course:  Devastated to Determined
DECEMBER SPECIAL - How to THRIVE through the Holidays after Betrayal Workshop
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa:   Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE
 
 

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The pain from betrayal can seem like it will last FOREVER. 
The constant crying, triggers, ruminating thoughts, anger, hopelessness.....
It can feel like it will NEVER end.  Does it really go away?
I had this question come in from one of our loyal listeners and we will break it down on today's episode.
What's inside?:
What does the average timeline look like?
What are the stages of recovery?
Is there hope at the end of the tunnel?
I pray this blesses you!
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The Holidays can be an excruciating time of year when you are experiencing grief and loss due to betrayal. 
The sights, sounds, smells, hallmark movies, and holidays songs can all be very triggering.
How can you enjoy the holidays while you are grieving the loss of your marriage, past, future, hopes, and dreams because of the infidelity?
Is it even possible?
In today's show, I'm giving you 10 practical tips you can use to help you experience glimmers of joy this holiday, even in the midst of grief.
I pray you use these to have a blessed holiday season!
XO Lisa
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Grab yours:  Sunrise Alarm Clock
Visit our new website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
DECEMBER SPECIAL - Grab our new Mini Course:  Devastated to Determined
DECEMBER SPECIAL - How to THRIVE through the Holidays after Betrayal Workshop
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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In today's episode, you will hear from one of my clients, Jennifer.  She will be sharing her journey of healing from betrayal trauma.
How she went from being devastated by her husband's many infidelities to becoming determined to not only heal, but move into a THRIVING future.
Jennifer is a lawyer concentrating on business disputes and complex personal injury cases. She lives in South Carolina with her three children, all five and under.  She met her husband abroad when she was 23, and they married a couple years later after a long-distance romance. While her marriage was by no means perfect, it was not until almost a decade in that she learned her husband was unfaithful.
I know her story will inspire and challenge you to take charge of your own healing and recovery from the devastation of betrayal.
I pray you find hope and encouragement in today's show.
 
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Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa:   Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
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The mind is a curious mystery. It helps us function daily, it houses memories, thoughts, beliefs, it helps us survive and can help us thrive in life. But when your mind takes on a mind of its own - it can be a disaster waiting to happen - especially if your mindset has been highjacked by betrayal trauma.
How can you change your mindset so you can actually begin to heal from the pain and trauma of his betrayal?
Today, I'm sharing 7 steps that will help you renew your mind and assist in your healing process.
I pray it blesses you!
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When you first hear about his betrayal, when you discover it for yourself, or you have the evidence presented to you, it can overwhelm you to the point of shutdown. Shock and denial kick in. You are in total disbelief.
This is a natural response to something that has caused you immense emotional pain. 
Denial is a form of self protection. It keeps you from having to face the brutal reality of his betrayal. 
But what if you get stuck in it. 
How does it affect you?
Can it cause physical, mental, and emotional illness?
How can you move through the denial stage so you can continue to heal from the trauma of betrayal?
We are diving in deep today so listen in closely. 
I also have something special for you as well.
I pray today's episode blesses you!
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Since your discovered his affair or pornography use, have you been experiencing:
Severe Brain Fog
Memory Loss
Forgetfulness
Rage
Overwhelming Sadness
Intrusive Thoughts
Unwanted memories
Mood alterations;
Hypervigilance 
If so, you could be experiencing Trauma Brain.  Is it a real thing? Can betrayal cause it?
Let's explore it together!
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa:   Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Trauma is sooo inconvenient. It can hit you out of nowhere, at the spur of the moment, when you least expect it.
How long will you deal with triggers?
6 months
2 years
Forever
What do you do to get through them?
Today, we are going to chat about it in a mini episode that is packed full of value in a short burst of time.  
Get ready to finally get control of those annoying trauma triggers.
I pray this blesses you!
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Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa:   Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
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The holidays are tough in and of themselves when you factor in all the added stress of holiday parties, work events, Christmas plays, school holiday events, family get togethers, church, baking, shopping….
I’m exhausted just talking about it.
But when you also factor in betrayal - the added stress and anxiety can put you over the top.
Especially if you’ve just found out about his affair / porn use.
This time of year can be so painful when you look at it through the lens of what used to be or what you thought used to be. 
Beautiful, happy, joyful, and celebrated memories become tainted by the betrayal. This leads to you feeling like your holidays are also tainted.
This begins the dread, anger, overwhelmed feelings that you have when you are entering into a season where you believe, "can I really survive the holidays?"  "I would rather just skip over them."
Beautiful, I understand. I remember being right where you are.  I remember asking myself, "what can I really handle?" I needed a plan to be able to get through a family gathering without feeling ashamed, overwhelmed, or anxious. 
So today, I am going to share with you 5 tips to help you move through holiday season and actually THRIVE in the midst of betrayal. 
Grab your pen and paper so you don't miss a thing.
And...
If you want to know more, join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood (the link is below) so you can be a part of the HOW TO THRIVE THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS workshop this Tuesday, November 7, 2023 @ 7pm EST.  
It's FREE!  Get in today!
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Schedule your Affair Recovery Consult with Lisa:   Affair Recovery Plan Consult
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE