Can betrayal trauma affect you spiritually?  
Can it cause you to blame God?
Can it cause you to be angry with God for not stepping in and stopping the affair or porn use?
Can it cause a crisis of faith?
Beautiful, there is a spiritual side to infidelity and while the unfaithful cannot blame their choices on the devil, could the enemy played a role in the temptation?
We are exploring all of this in today's episode!
I pray it brings some much needed truth into a difficult subject.
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You suspect your husband is having an affair. He has been acting strange for weeks on end.  You may even have "circumstantial evidence". But how do you know if he really is cheating or is using porn? He won't confess it. Now you're left with just wondering and it is driving you crazy.
What do you do?
In today's episode, I'm going to guide you through some practical steps to take if you suspect your husband is cheating.
This episode was the response to a question sent in by a loyal listener.
Did you know you can submit a question as well and I will answer it on the podcast?  Just submit your question here:  ASK HERE
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Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
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D-Day
It's the day we remember as the DAY OF DESTRUCTION. The Day my world shattered into a billion pieces. The day I found out he betrayed me.
What if you could actually REDEEM that day so it no longer has that kind of power over you?
What if that day could have a different meaning?
Well, it can. You CAN redeem D-Day. 
In today's episode, I share 5 steps God had me take to redeem my D-Day and now, that day no longer has power over my life. I am free from it's destruction and you can be too.
Grab your pen and paper and let's dive in...
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Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
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Is it "normal" for the unfaithful not to tell me everything until I absolutely force the issue?
Why won't he tell me the truth when he has the chance?
Unfortunately, this problem is more common than we'd like to believe.
When someone is caught, they tell only what they absolutely have to tell - and no more.
 
There's a basic human survival mechanism in most of us that means we don't want to voluntarily disclose things that we know will create bad reactions - about any issue - but especially about being unfaithful.
 
Let's find out why this is and how to navigate it - from both sides.
 
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Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
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He was the one who betrayed me!  He was unfaithful. Why do I feel so much shame?
When your spouse's infidelity has been discovered, it can send a tsunami wave of shame to the one who has been betrayed. 
It can be caused by undue shame we place on ourselves as the betrayed or our unfaithful spouse ends up blaming us for their betrayal and it can cause the shame to mount. The betrayal is bad enough, but when you couple it with shame, it attacks your self image, self worth, and can cause you to even enter into guilt and severe insecurity.
What do we do with this?
In today's episode, we will explore the shame of betrayal for the betrayed and how you can navigate it.
I pray this blesses you!
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
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Today is Q & A day!
Another great question from one of our loyal, beautiful women:
How do you know if you can really forgive him for betraying you?  It's so hard. Even God gives us a way out because it's so hard.
How can I truly know if I can actually forgive him?
This is such a hard topic but one that we must address if we are going to really heal from the trauma of betrayal.
I pray this helps you!
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

I had the privilege of being a guest on the Unstoppable Growth Podcast with Tim & Rebecca Lindsay - my pastors and incredible mentors - to share my testimony of how God used the Unstoppable Growth program to catapult my life, marriage and ministry into what it is today. 
I pray you enjoy the interview and it inspires you to step into your healing journey.
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Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Today is Q & A day!
Sarah sent in a question and asked how can you redeem the precious memories within your relationship when they have been tainted by betrayal?
I am giving you 5 ways to "take back" what is rightfully yours.
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Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

In the aftermath of a discovery, there is chaos. Your spouse discovered your affair or sexual addiction. This was followed by shock, anger, sadness and an array of emotions. Now there is this huge disconnect between you. You view the story one way while your spouse sees it from a very different perspective.  You are in crisis mode!  What do you do?
You must triage before you can even begin to move forward. But how?
In today's episode, I'm speaking to the unfaithful spouse in order to help you navigate the crisis right after discovery. I'm giving you 5 ideas to help you move through the early crisis stage so you can begin to establish a sense of safety in order to have a chance at reconciliation.
I pray today's episode will spark a great conversation for you and your spouse.
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

When you discover your spouse has betrayed you through sexual addiction or an affair, you are thrown into unknown territory.
Your reality has been altered, your world as you knew it has ended, and your life has shattered into a billion pieces.
It is like being in a major accident you didn't cause, yet you have been critically injured and now you are in desperate need of critical care. 
But what is the first step? And what are the next few?
In today's episode, I am sharing your first 5 steps to take when you have been betrayed so you can begin to heal from the devastation of the trauma. 
I pray this helps you begin your healing journey!
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

You are depressed, overwhelmed, can't sleep, can't eat, and you have unexplained pain throughout your body since you've discovered your spouse betrayed you.
Are these symptoms of betrayal trauma?
Are there more?
We are looking at an extensive, yet not exhaustive list of betrayal trauma symptoms in today's episode.
Grab your pen and paper so you can self assess and see if you are actually experiencing some of these symptoms.
MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Sexual Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one you gave your heart to, the one who you put your complete trust in, the one who you love with all your heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Or maybe it is pornography with sexual addiction. Either way, your world has been obliterated. Blown apart, shattered into a billion pieces - like ash in the wind.
What has just happened?  What in the world are you feeling? Experiencing? My friend, it’s call betrayal trauma and it’s real.
In today's episode, we dive into what betrayal trauma really is and what makes it distinct from fear based traumas.
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Betrayal knocks you off your feet. It turns your world upside down.
Your mind is constantly racing and won't stop, your body is fatigued and you don't feel like you can go another minute. 
But there is so much to do. People to take care of. Places to go. Why won't the world just STOP and recognize you are in pain. 
You've been betrayed and it's like no one cares, sees, or notices.
So you just keep moving forward. You just keep living like you did BEFORE the betrayal. 
I mean, life goes on right?
Beautiful, when you have been betrayed, life cannot just go on like it did before discovery. You need to set some realistic expectations for yourself BEFORE you crash and burn.
I'm gonna help you with that in today's episode.
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Just the thought of being vulnerable with your spouse after you discover they have betrayed you can be frightening. I get it.
I remember thinking to myself, "I will NEVER open up to him again. I will NEVER let him into my heart again. I will NEVER share my thoughts, desires, hopes or dreams with him ever again!" I was wounded, devastated, and didn't think I could.
But then I came to realize how vital it was to open up again if we were ever going to reconcile our relationship.
In order for relationship to work, vulnerability is key. We have to be willing to be authentic, open and honest in the marriage.
If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet....
Should I risk being vulnerable if we are reconciling after betrayal?  Listen Here
If you have decided to step into vulnerability for the sake of reconciling your marriage, today's episode will give you 5 simple ways to begin re-establishing your vulnerability. Starting off slow is OK. It's just important that you start.
I pray today's episode opens up a great conversation for you both.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

After betrayal, even if you've decided to reconcile the relationship, you can still have a hard time being vulnerable with your spouse.
What if he/she betrays be again?
What if I get hurt again?
What if they lie to me again?
What if he/she judges my feelings?
All these are valid fears. 
But how can we get past our fears and anxiety to become vulnerable and open back up to our spouse? Should we?
Let's find out how to address the fears and anxiety along with why vulnerability in relationship is an essential part of reconciliation.
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MORE RESOURSES:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 
Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE